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Is Black Less Attractive?

I am an Individualist; I defy any form of collectivism and discrimination on the basis of collectivism. Racism or color discrimination is one of the most heinous forms of collectivism. While describing racism and its ill-design, Ayn Rand wrote,

“Racism claims that the content of a man’s mind (not his cognitive apparatus, but its content) is inherited; that a man’s convictions, values and character are determined before he is born, by physical forces beyond his control. This is the caveman’s version of the doctrine of innate ideas—or of inherited knowledge—which has been thoroughly refuted by philosophy and science. Racism is a doctrine of, by and for brutes. It is a barnyard or stock-farm version of collectivism, appropriate to a mentality that differentiates between various breeds of animals, but not between animals and men.”

How true these words are. We may get attracted by someone only by his looks, but will that attraction lead to the way of love just on the basis of the color of the skin of a person?

I cannot support that Idea. Because, while attraction is an impulse, love or to love is a rational decision. We do not start liking and loving someone just because he or she is beautiful or because he or she has a particular complex of skin. We do love a person only when we see that particular person deserves our love, admiration and respect.

It is so simple, you cannot start admiring a girl just because she is a blond, however, if you come to know that the girl is as talented as Julia Roberts is, or Madam Curie was, then you will certainly start admiring her.

However recently, a racist and allegedly scientific report was published by a British psychologist who claims that black women are less attractive than others.'

Satoshi Kanazawa, a lecturer at the London School of Economics performed this skewed study which claims that while Asian women are most attractive, Black women are least attractive. How is it possible?

A person may have his or her own taste. You may find a blond much more sexually attractive than a Brunette or an Asian girl. It is also true that you have the right to acknowledge your personal taste and to say that you do not like a black girl that much. But how can you generalize it? How can you say that black women are least attractive by nature? Can you say that Jennifer Lopez is less attractive than say an Asian girl Asin or Karina Kapoor? No, you cannot say that, what you can say is that you prefer Karina Kapoor over Jennifer Lopez, it is your personal taste.

It may be true that out of the sample people to whom Satoshi Kanazawa studied during his research, might have a majority of such persons, who by their individual tastes and preferences find Asian girls more attractive than American or European girls and a Black girl to be chemical changes that takes place in our body when we face a stranger girl. This sexual attractiveness is natural. However, the color or skin of that girl doesn’t affect our chemicals. We take impressions of her facial dimensions, her breasts to waist and upper thighs curve ratio. The calculations goes fast in our mind and even before realizing that these calculations have gone through out mind, we start feeling attraction towards that girl and that too, without being affected by her color.

However, it is hard to find a person who is pure with no impressions of his or her environment. If you are more familiar with Asian girls, you may find Asian girls more attractive. Yet, all these observations will be truly yours. You cannot generalize it to say that all men feel that Asian girls are most attractive or black girls are least attractive. From my point of view, a sexy black girl is as attractive as a seductive blond, or hot Asian girl.
However, Satoshi Kanazawal tried to rationalize his observations on the basis of testosterone. He said, "The only thing I can think of that might potentially explain the lower average level of physical attractiveness among black women is testosterone.”

He further added, "Africans on average have higher levels of testosterone than other races...women with higher levels of testosterone have more masculine features and are therefore less physically attractive."
And in order to give weight to his personal theory, he gave an example saying, Naomi Campbell is less attractive than fellow supermodel Elle Macpherson.

I am not a scientist, however, I refuse to generalize girls to discriminate them on the basis of color, I refuse to be racist. 

Teenage Pregnancy and Issues related with Teen Moms

Teen pregnancy is one such issue which is common to both the developing world and the developed industrialized countries. However, the reason for teen pregnancy is different in different cases. In developing countries of Asia and specially in Indian sub-continental countries (India, Pakistan, Sri Lanka, Bhutan, Nepal et all) teen pregnancies often occurs within married relationships as these countries still suffer social problems such as child marriages.

On the other hand, in industrialized countries such as the USA, UK, France, Italy or Switzerland, the main reason for teen pregnancy is high sexual involvements of teens in unmarried relationships.

The United States suffers with the highest rate of teen pregnancy in the developed world. Recently, at the occasion of the United States National Day for Prayers, MTV renewed its fourth season of Teen Mom, which is an initiative to spread awareness about the issues and problems related with teen moms in general.

According to the Center for Disease Control in the United States, one-third or 33% of American girls get pregnant before the age of 20.

The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy maintains a website teenpregnancy.org to provide relevant information about the issues and according to the site, the United States faces "750,000 teen pregnancies annually. Eight in ten of these pregnancies are unintended and 81 percent are to unmarried teens."

Teen moms often suffer social stigmata and that increases the risk for babies born to teenage mothers. They faces major long lasting problems in many areas such as schooling failure, mental and physical illness and poverty.

Teen moms also suffer similar risks. Proper studies on teen moms reveal certain facts about teen pregnancy:
  • Teen mothers often drop out of high school
  • They often are and remain single parents
  • Teen moms score lower in math, science and reading into adolescence
Teen pregnancy is often considered as a huge crisis for the pregnant girl along with her family. She often suffers anger, guilt, and denial. If the father of such child is also a teen, he also suffers similar reactions in his family.


However, in most of the cases, teen mothers are found to be engaged with elder men of age at least 6 or more years more than their own ages.


Adolescent moms often fail to attain proper medical care during pregnancy period and that increases the risks for medical complications. It is necessary to provide special understanding, education, and medical care along with information about nutrition, substance abuse, infections, and complications of pregnancy and delivery.

Teen moms should be taught about dangers of using tobacco, alcohol, and other drugs as this may damage the foetus in their womb. All pregnant teens should also be provided with medical care beginning right from their early pregnancy.

Often teen moms remain uncertain about their role and responsibilities for their child, as a result, babies of teenage mothers often suffer risk of neglect and abuse.

Teenage mothers often get frustrated because of the regular demand of caretaking for their child. Their frustration further increases because mostly they remain single parents.

Teen girls should be educated about contraception and their proper usage because education about contraceptives leads them to use contraception while having sex.


However, sex education and information about contraceptives doesn’t cause any negative effect by lowering the age at their first sexual activities.

How to Prevent Teen Pregnancies

Many teen girls remain excited about their sexual life and how to start it. If you are about to involve in a sexual relation, the best way is to attain all possible information about different types of contraceptives as the usage of proper contraceptive will reduce chances of unwanted pregnancy.

According to the Public Health Agency of Canada, 25 percent of young teens who have intercourse without a proper contraceptive are likely to become pregnant within a month.

Parents are required to get involved with their teen children and to discuss about sex and contraceptives.
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How to Find a Girlfriend

Not everyone is as attractive as Brad Pitt or George Clooney, yet everybody wants to have a girlfriend.

As a matter of fact, it is not necessary for a boy to be as smart and strong as Salman Khan or as attractive as Amir Khan to win the heart of a beautiful girl.

It is true that finding a girlfriend is not an easy task, but it is certainly not impossible. Having a girlfriend is a natural thing.

Yet, many boys find it difficult to approach a girl; in fact, many guys find it very hard to start a cordial conversation with girls.

So what is it that makes it difficult for guys to find a girlfriend?

The first thing is, guys in general are not very smart with their communication skills.

If you want to have a girlfriend, it is necessary for you to be good at conversations.

Improving your conversational skills is not very difficult.

The very first step is to try to gather more and more information about subjects that can be used in a general cordial talk with girl of girls.

Some guys prefer to date with Asian girls, while some other loves to be Caucasian blond girls, American or European girls.

Now, if you are looking to be friends with an Asian girl, you will have to know more about her Asian culture and background.

While there are many Asian girls in US, you can easily attain chances of meeting Asian girls online through various social networking sites including Facebook, Twitter or Orkut.

Furthermore, there are many Asian websites that offer online dating and conversation services.

Chinese girls do enjoy services of Chinese online dating websites to know about western men from USA and Europe.

Indian girls love to meet guys from different part of world through internet.

Once you make sure that a specific girl is attractive enough to be your long term girlfriend, you need to start gathering information about her country, culture and religious patterns. 

While American girls or European girls are open to ideas about dating and mating, Indian girls or Chinese girls are not that much forward and often they remain shy about online dating and love relationships.

However, Asian girls are gradually opening up about long distance love relationships.

Many Asian girls prefer to be in love relationships with western men through online dating websites and often they desire to meet their online love in real life to seek future prospects of a happy married life.

It should be noted that Chinese girls or Indian girls and in fact most of the Asian girls are shy and submissive in nature.

They prefer determined and dominant men who can not only understand them but can easily lead them to a beautiful married life.

Asian girls prefer to be in long term married relationships.

Thus, if you succeed in impressing an Asian girl online, she will certainly try to seek possibilities of marriage.

She will ask about your educational qualifications and income resources to ensure that she can lead a stable married life with you.

Be confident and true while chatting with an Asian girl online because truth is the key for success in love life.